I’ve finally managed to find some time to sit down and write Daisy’s 12 month update. We’ve finally made it to the 1 year milestone and we’ve survived a whole year as parents to 3 children!
On the 29th of December little Daisy duck turned one, I can’t believe how fast her 1st year went, we have so many lovely memories of our first year together as a family of three and can’t wait for all the adventures that are yet to come.
Since hitting the 1 year milestone Daisy is definitely starting to show her independence, we do have the odd temper tantrum here and there and obstinacy to do things her way or not at all. At one time Daisy would let you feed her a banana but now if she can’t hold it herself then she doesn’t want it! Goodbye baby, hello toddler!
Daisy’s new game at the moment is standing up in her cot and emptying out all the nappies from the cot pockets. Daisy takes great delight in watching you stoop to pick them up, time and time again. Daisy also loves clapping along to pat-a-cake and loves rowing with you to row,row, row your boat and can say “row, row, row” which is just so cute.
Daisy loves to give you a toy as well as take one and likes games where she can put things, such as blocks in containers and then tip them out. We love stacking cups up so she can then knock them down. I think she’s definitely developed a love for trains, she sits lovely with her big brother Charlie playing with trains and Thomas Minis and she loves to follow him around the kitchen.
At 12 months of age Daisy can pull herself up on furniture into a standing position and can cruise around the furniture. She loves to walk with you holding her hands and loves her new ride on toys that she received for her birthday, she’s already learnt how to push herself along on them. Daisy’s favorite word to say at the moment is “That” and then points at an object, I think she’s heard us say “what’s that” quite a bit and is now copying, she even uses it in the right context.
Daisy’s daily routine hasn’t changed much from last month except for the fact that she is now pretty much down to one nap a day, she only tends to sleep for an hour tops and then gets quite grizzly in the late afternoon. Her bedtime is still around 6pm and she still doesn’t sleep through the night, I can only live in hope!
This week I’ve decided to try and cut down on breastfeeds, I really want to sleep train Daisy so she’s not waking me up 3-4 times through the night, at the moment I have to comfort feed her back to sleep but need for her to try and settle herself back to sleep. I have my sister’s hen weekend in March and want to be able to go away for the weekend and have some quality me time. I’ve started with dropping Daisy’s morning feed and we are just left with the 6pm bedtime feed and the feeds through the night. We are still trying to get Daisy to take cows milk and we are still persisting with her beaker but she just seems to play with it, we’ve tried it warm and cold with no success. Stopping the feeds are proving difficult, I’ve had many screaming fits through the night when I say no to breastfeeding but then end up feeding Daisy just so I can get her back to sleep and get some sleep for myself, we are certainly up against a challenge! It’s so hard when you have very little sleep and have to go to work the next day. It doesn’t help that Daisy is now refusing her dummy, she’s not had her dummy for about 4 weeks now, sometimes I wish she would have one for comfort but on the other hand I should take this as a blessing that she’s no longer dependant on one, just dependent on me though!
I am SO proud of myself that I completed my goal of a year because I remember how hard it was in the beginning and how badly I wanted to give up. We started out with a few obstacles from cracked nipples, mistitis and a case of painful thrush but have come out the other side and made it through despite people telling me that I should stop and switch to bottles, but I’m so glad I didn’t and I can tell you right now that it was absolutely worth it. Research has shown that breastfed babies have the natural ability to tell when they are satisfied/full and I have definitely seen this with Daisy in how she eats regular food – it’s amazing!
We have recently had a phase of fussy eating where Daisy’s not wanted to eat her usual daily foods that we feed her and she won’t even entertain shop brought baby food, thankfully it seemed to be a phase and she’s back to eating normally again but she’s becoming quite fussy with food, she never used to be and would eat everything but sadly those days seem to be gone and we now have a stubborn little lady!
Daisy’s got quite a few teeth now, 12 in total to be exact, we have all eight front teeth and 4 back teeth (two top back and two bottom back). We’ve had a rough couple of weeks over the last couple of weeks with teething, I think the back ones coming have really caused some discomfort. We’ve started good habits early and we clean Daisy’s teeth daily with a special toothbrush and toothpaste, she is starting to become quite stubborn now though, she used to let us brush them but now it’s a battle to get her to open her mouth and throws a tantrum when you refuse to give her the toothbrush.
Weight wise Daisy now weighs 7.6 kg which is 16.75lbs and now sits on the 50th percentile line instead of the 25th percentile line in her little red health record book, the health visitor checked Daisy’s weight at her 1 year review and she doesn’t have any concerns, she said that Daisy’s quite petite, so different to how her chunky brothers were at this age! She measures 73cm in length and remains on the 25th percentile line and her head circumference is 47cm which puts her on the 91st percentile line and as been consistent since birth.
Daisy is still in clothes aged 9-12 months and was really spoilt at Christmas with lots of lovely new clothes in the next size up because being the only girl we only have boys clothes put away so have had to start from scratch with clothes for Daisy. We have now moved into size 4 nappies and we still love Aldi’s Mamia nappies and wipes and occassionally use Asda’s Little Angels nappies if we can’t get to Aldi.
We have no walking yet but I don’t think it will be long, I can’t wait to go out and buy Daisy her first pair of shoes, it’s such a special milestone buying first shoes.
For Daisy’s birthday we spent most of the day at home opening presents and playing with new toys, I can’t believe my little girl now owns 4 dolls, I have to pinch myself everyday that we have been blessed with a little girl, it’s so lovely having a bit of pink in the house after having 2 boys. We had a bit of lunch out at our local pub and popped in to my dad’s for a cup of tea and a catch up. We saved the big birthday celebrations for Daisy’s party which was on the 30th December, I’m going to do a separate blog post on Daisy’s 1st birthday party and can’t wait to share it with you.
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